Best Cities for Meeting Real Girls

[master_of_seduction]

When I travel I always throw girls in the equation. I like to meet real girls, have a nice conversation and perhaps become friends or something more. It is always a matter of empathy.

Nothing against any kind of religion, but I would never go to a muslin country because I know that kind of thing is very unlikely or dangerous. I like open-minded, liberal and independent people. Same rights and freedom for men and women is the name of the game, at least for me.

Here are my favorites. Keep in mind that I am talking about REAL girls. No money involved.

- Sweden: gorgeous people, nice body (few people are fat somehow), feminist, open-minded, drama-free, party all the time.

- LA: open-minded, happy and liberal people. You must know the hot spots or things become dificult

- NYC: nice and easy girls from all over the world. It can get much better than this.

- RIO: If you are a foreigner, look like a foreigner (blond, green eyes, accent, etc.) you will do fine. Women will just grab you and you will not need to speak much. However if you look like the average Brazilian then you are in trouble. Keep in mind that when some folks say Rio rocks, they are talking about cheap sex from hookers, not real girls. This sucks in my personal opinion...

Now I am curious: How about Berlin, Rome, Prague, Vienna, Warsaw for a english-speaking person? Can anyone throw some thoughts and tips?

Freedom,

-D

[Caesar_X]

I'm going to take a wild guess and say you have the wrong forum here. I'm sure you could get a lot more useful responses from the Speed Seduction folks.

[master_of_seduction]

I'm going to take a wild guess and say you have the wrong forum here. I'm sure you could get a lot more useful responses from the Speed Seduction folks.

Maybe this topic does not interest you, and I can respect/accept that.

But knowing this information about cities is an important factor to consider when choosing a mini-retirement destination for many social people like me.

And I am sure it was for Tim Ferriss as well, if you can read in between the lines. ;-)

If you have nothing to add, don't spoil the topic. Thanks!

How is Berlin? Anyone?

[4hourworkweak]

- Sweden: gorgeous people, nice body, feminist, open-minded, drama-free, party all the time.


Hi Master of Disaster,

I live in Sweden and I thought at first you were describing me in your post.

Got to say though if I was chasing girls, I would go to Denmark first before Sweden as they tend to be more fun orientated.

[placeshifter]

Just about anywhere in Eastern Europe will have women who are better looking than any Western country in terms of physical beauty with the exception of Scandinavia.

Assuming you're independently wealthy or have a decent portable business, your socioeconomic status will carry a lot more weight in Eastern Europe than in Western Europe/Scandinavia...leading to greater opportunities with all types of females as well as a better lifestyle.

Avoid Rome as Italian women in that region are quite ugly. Austrian girls are cute and speak better English than the Germans (not to mention being sexually liberal), so you may want to pass through and see for yourself.

Poland, being a Catholic nation, would not be my cup of tea and I would imagine Prague has been thoroughly destroyed by stag parties and Gen-Xers in search of their Hemingway experience. On the other hand, there are always 'second cities' that usually provide greater opportunities to interact with locals than capital cities in all of these countries.

[Sven]

Well master, if you put up questions like this to open yourself to replies. Ceasars was polite. If you do not like it that he thinks this is the wrong forum, tough luck.

I feel that it is YOU spoiling the forum, not Ceasar spoiling your post

[sub8hr]

lol, well, Tim opened his site up to the pick-up artist crowd when he started blogging about Neil Strauss.

I don't think it much matters where you go. Just pick some place you want to go to anyway, and I'm sure there will be women there.

[webgal]

And I am sure it was for Tim Ferriss as well, if you can read in between the lines. ;-)


You don't speak for Tim or make assumptions about him on his own forum. He can do that himself and rarely talks between the lines. He's pretty straightforward.

Carry on.

[xvx]

Havana, New Mexico, Dominican Republic...

[FreedomFinder]

I haven't traveled much outside the U.S, but I can second that L.A girls are great, (asians anyone?). Also, there are a lot of fun, free-spirited, sexy college girls in Austin, TX (party town).

[xvx]

Tried LA last summer, everything is so spread out. Downtown LA was like a ghost town at night. Stayed in the standard hotel and spent time in the upstairs roof top bar, full of wannabe's pretentious types. Guessing there's nicer girls elsewhere. Did some gaming in the grove shopping centre for fun too, mainly street and in barnes and noble.

Am wanting to go to Miami at some point, but looks so damn expensive, but the night life is supposed to awesome??

[maxpr]

I would not normally respond to a post like this BUT I will give my opinion. Starting first with my somewhat limited experience.

Prague; good opportunity to meet many international travelers. I spent some time out at night and if you are the type looking for "hot" females, then I am going to be truthful and say I did not see anything I could not/would not see going out here in the states (then again I live in Texas :) ). There is a good chance you will meet tourists from the UK or the states. There are also many Germans there due to the proximity to Germany. With that said, you don't show up and have women crawling all over you (unless you are Brad Pitt, which of course begs the questions...are you Brad Pitt???)

Berlin; very fun city, lots to see, could spend months there personally. Good opportunity to meet many international travelers/expats as it is a hip destination for not only Germans but also others. Germans have a very high level of knowledge of English BUT it does not hurt if you try, try, try to learn some German. Also, one thing I see many tourists do, SLOW DOWN when you are speaking English. If they do not understand, try to re-word what you are trying to get across or try simplifying what you are saying. If you happen to speak German, then all the better.

I can also vouch that Austin is a good place for meeting single women, as someone else mentioned (I live there). But I am getting a hint that you are looking abroad.

Now let me give my personal opinion. If you relax, be yourself and are confident you should have no problem meeting a nice lady where ever you happen to be. I find it strange and somewhat disturbing when people "target" certain women, Scandanavian, blondes, European etc...I think the idea is to find someone that is a good fit or match for you not a nationality with nice body parts.

Also understand that women in different countries are looking for different things than the country you reside in (gf is German). Differences in lifestyle and culture are sometimes not as evident as you might imagine at first.

[badhank]

I find it strange and somewhat disturbing when people "target" certain women, Scandanavian, blondes, European etc...I think the idea is to find someone that is a good fit or match for you not a nationality with nice body parts.

how is it strange to already know what kind of girls you are attracted to? you are just as likely to find a personality that "fits or matches" with any woman in the world, why not increase that chances that you find it in a woman that matches your physical interests?

[maxpr]

how is it strange to already know what kind of girls you are attracted to? you are just as likely to find a personality that "fits or matches" with any woman in the world, why not increase that chances that you find it in a woman that matches your physical interests?

HHmmm so by looking for a particular type...WITH the personality you are looking for and that best matches you...it INCREASES your chances...? Interesting theory.

I also wonder the intentions of someone with a moniker such as "master of seduction".

What ever happened to just being yourself, being bold and confident. Now we have to "seduce" women. I think it is cheap and demeaning to women.

[badhank]

I didn't say that it will "increase your chances" as a broad statement, just that you are a likely to find some1 you get along with that you find extremely pretty (to you) as you are some1 that is extremely ugly (to you, god loves us all). If, however you only pursue women you find pretty, you are bound to find a pretty one that gives you that fit or match you were looking for.

[maxpr]

as you are some1 that is extremely ugly (to you, god loves us all).

I wasn't aware we knew each other on such a personal level for you to draw such conclusions? Unless I am lost in translation here.

"...why not INCREASE that chances that you find it in a woman that matches your physical interests?"

Your statement, not mine.

[FreedomFinder]

I think what Badhank is trying to say, is that you can find a personality match with a woman of any "type" (looks-wise), so you might as well find one that looks the way you want, who ALSO has the personality type you want so you have the best of both worlds. I'd tend to agree, but would also like to point out that they'll be A LOT of gurlies you like lookswise, and a lot you'll like personality-wise, so make sure to spend your time with all the ones who are worth your time. Variety is King.

[maxpr]

I think what Badhank is trying to say, is that you can find a personality match with a woman of any "type" (looks-wise), so you might as well find one that looks the way you want, who ALSO has the personality type you want so you have the best of both worlds. I'd tend to agree, but would also like to point out that they'll be A LOT of gurlies you like lookswise, and a lot you'll like personality-wise, so make sure to spend your time with all the ones who are worth your time. Variety is King.

I agree, variety is the spice of life.

[badhank]

I wasn't aware we knew each other on such a personal level for you to draw such conclusions? Unless I am lost in translation here.

"...why not INCREASE that chances that you find it in a woman that matches your physical interests?"

Your statement, not mine.

there is either a translation problem or you are intentionally trying to misinterpret what i wrote, one of the "a"'s there should be "as". I certainly would not call some1 ugly, even if i knew them personally, bad form.
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you are as likely to find some1 you get along with that you find extremely pretty, as you are some1 that is extremely ugly.

second "as you are" refers to "find some1" above, implied. hope i cleared up any confusion.

[maxpr]

there is either a translation problem or you are intentionally trying to misinterpret what i wrote, one of the "a"'s there should be "as". I certainly would not call some1 ugly, even if i knew them personally, bad form.
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you are as likely to find some1 you get along with that you find extremely pretty, as you are some1 that is extremely ugly.

second "as you are" refers to "find some1" above, implied. hope i cleared up any confusion.

no, simple typo that confused me. no problem. and as far as the topic, i respect your opinion even if i do not agree. but i understand where you are coming from.

[badhank]

do you not have any "types" at all? That would imply that literally every woman on the planet above the legal age had equal potential to attract you, quite an open mind you have there. I still dont see how its strage or disturbing to only date redheads within a certain age group and of a certain body type, if that is what you like (as an example).

[maxpr]

do you not have any "types" at all? That would imply that literally every woman on the planet above the legal age had equal potential to attract you, quite an open mind you have there. I still dont see how its strage or disturbing to only date redheads within a certain age group and of a certain body type, if that is what you like (as an example).

I like variety. Color of the rainbow baby!

[Jon Alan]

My next door neighbor is totally totally, and the commute saves on gas. Just trying to get her attention now without looking like a stalker.

[read]

Guys, it sounds like you're at a meat market. Please try to talk about women as people, not "types." I guarantee you'll have better luck finding a woman who enjoys your company, no matter where in the world you're looking for her.

[maxpr]

Guys, it sounds like you're at a meat market. Please try to talk about women as people, not "types." I guarantee you'll have better luck finding a woman who enjoys your company, no matter where in the world you're looking for her.

I absolutely couldn't agree more with Read.

This was the point I, so not eloquently, tried to make.

I think typing women has the tendancy to spill over into objectifying women.

[read]

Thanks, maxpr--

[webgal]

Oh but the "typing" makes it the funniest and most entertaining thread of all.

[FreedomFinder]

Oh but the "typing" makes it the funniest and most entertaining thread of all.

Yea, very true. Lighten up guys, girls objectify us to, there's nothing wrong with bein sexy. :P

[kevingc]

This is a map.

The red dots represent concentrations of single women.

The blue dots represent concentrations of single men.

You probably want to visit the red dots.

http://creativeclass.com/whos_your_city/maps/FIG_13.1_The_Singles_Map.gif

[kamakiri]

I wish this post would die.

[davy]

do these activities fall under the "want to have" section or the "want to do" section? :rolleyes:

[tomswiftjr]

That map of the US is interesting...I wonder if there's one for major cities worldwide.

[JasonM]

do these activities fall under the "want to have" section or the "want to do" section? :rolleyes:

Haha, funny. And good point!